Hello 234Star Helpline,
I’m pregnant for my ex and I don’t know what to do.
I’ve been in my current relationship for 3 months but I don’t think I love my boyfriend the way I loved my Ex who I dated for about a year.
My Ex always spoilt me and gave me whatever I wanted but he is a womanizer and I caught him cheating on me several times. My current boyfriend isn’t as rich as my Ex but he is loyal and doesn’t like flexing or going out, he respects me and takes things about me seriously.
My Ex still sends me money asking me to come back to him but the cheating was just too much and I don’t want to go through that again even though I still love him.
I went for a friend’s party who is also friends with my Ex and hooked up with my Ex there and now I’m 2 weeks pregnant, I don’t know what to do, should I pretend as if it belongs to my boyfriend because I can’t tell him I’m pregnant for my Ex.
Hello, you shouldn’t make your boyfriend think someone else’s child is his, this will only cause more problems for you in the future, you are not yet married to him so even if you tell him and you both part ways because of the pregnancy it wouldn’t really affect you, and from your message you seem to be still attached to your Ex and have more interest in him than your boyfriend, if he can’t take responsibility for the child then it’s best to forget him and move on with your life. You will find someone who will love you and your child.
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