Okay before I start, I’d like to point out that I’m a strong advocate of getting that orgasm and speaking up when you’re not satisfied. I don’t see the point of having sex if I’m not reaching Cloud 9. I mean, I might as well grab a Dildo and shine my congo by myself, but that’s just my opinion.
Truth is, most ladies have had to fake an orgasm at one point of their sex life or the other. I was discussing with 4 of my colleagues (remember them?) and we all agreed that there are 4 major reasons women fake orgasms.
We don’t want to hurt the man’s ego – Especially when we like you and want to make it look like you know what you’re doing when you actually don’t.
Don’t want to come across as hard to please – Because some guys actually put in the work and sometimes it’s us, not them. You know?
A nice way of saying ‘fuck off my punani’ – Ę sir, how are you pounding me for 1 hour and 30 minutes non-stop? AM I YAM? What are you trying to prove?
Because every sex doesn’t have to end in an orgasm – This is true for some women (myself not included). The goal is not always the big O. Sometimes, the process of sex itself and the intimacy that comes with it is enough for some.
But really ladies, stop nursing that man, you’re not his mum! You’ll be doing yourself (and him) a whole world of good by speaking up and even showing him how to drive you wild. Don’t miss out on the good loving you deserve because you’re trying not to hurt his ego.
‘Nuff said!
Lmao… That’s only if the man in question doesn’t know how to go crazy in bed sha.