Lessons For The Ladies From Neyo, His Bae and The Ex

American RnB star Neyo recently announced that he and his girlfriend (Crystal Renay) will be having a baby soon, and far from being happy, we were shocked.

Surprise!!!!!!!!!!!❤️

A photo posted by NE-YO (@neyo) on Aug 30, 2015 at 9:42am PDT

This same Neyo had asked his ex (Monyetta Shaw) to undergo a Tubal Ligation (tie her tubes) because he didn’t want anymore kids (they had 2)…The horror?

And although he has claimed that the decision was mutual, we still blame him. Men are always at fault.

But here’s what ladies should learn from this…

1.  Do not make any life/body altering decision based on what a man wants or what a man thinks. Let your decision be yours and yours alone.

2. Do not blame men for everything. From what we hear, Neyo didn’t hold a gun to his ex’s  head…She chose to. Let go of the bitterness ma’am.

3. Nothing is permanent. Everything ends. Except God’s love of course.

4. All men are the same. I know they keep saying they’re not, but they are. Neyo’s drama could easily be every Nigerian man’s drama.

So before you start crossing oceans to find that ‘different’ man, remember that ALL MEN ARE THE SAME!