#234StarHelpline: My Fiancé Wants A Threesome

Hello 234Star,

My Fiancé wants a threesome!

We’ve been dating for a year and he proposed to me earlier on this year. We have made plans to do our traditional marriage this December, everything is beautiful and almost perfect, but the problem is that he wants us to have a threesome, he said it’s something he has always fantasized about, but he only wanted to do it with someone he truly loves, which according to him is the girl he will get married to.
I refused and he kept on begging me for it, saying it doesn’t have to be someone we know, but if I’m ok doing it with any of my friends.
This is so pathetic, this is something I can’t imagine myself doing, I eventually told him that I’d do what he wants if he invites his best friend to join us in having sex and he got really angry with me.
He didn’t speak to me for 3 days because of my own request, how can someone be that selfish?

He called me begging that he only wants to do it before he gets married and remain faithful to me, that he has to fulfill his sexual fantasies to be alright in the marriage.

I’m not alright with this so-called fantasy, this is the only problem I’m facing in my relationship right now, every other thing is beautiful, but this!!!

He also warned me not to discuss it with his mum, she is the only one that can talk sense into him.

I’m confused, I’m thinking of walking away, but I’ve gone too far to turn back. I need help on what to do.

Our Advice:

Pray fervently for God’s direction and intervention, it might sound cliche but there is absolutely nothing prayer cannot solve. We will also leave this to our readers to offer their opinions and advices.