Dara Oluwatoye
The best thing about sex, besides the orgasms, is having a partner that understands your body inside out. And for that to happen, you need to know your sex language.
Knowing yours is the key to unlocking unbridled pleasure every time you have sex because you know what excites and turns you on. No more misses! Learning your language guarantees you a good time every time. There are five sex languages that you could be speaking.
1. Fun
If you speak fun, you’re someone who loves sexual experiments, is open to a quickie in the elevator, and spontaneity is your middle name. From BDSM to sex toys, you’ve gone the whole nine yards. You don’t need sweet words to rev your engines. Once your partner says the word, you’re ready to go!
2. Desire
People who speak desire want to feel wanted, so you appreciate it when your partner goes all out to show you how much they like you. You like a planned seduction that shows your partner listens to what you love and makes an effort to make sex special.
3. Pleasure
Everyone wants to feel this, but if you speak pleasure, you pay extra attention to your partner’s pleasure. You love finding what makes your partner tick, giggle or moan. Does he like getting his toes sucked? Does she love being tied up? You’re all about exploring your partner and taking sex to the next level for them.
4. Patience
If you speak patience, it’s never wham, bam thank you, ma’am, where you’re concerned. You love building up to sex with small touches like neck kisses and body massages. Slow seduction is the name of the game, and the buildup drives you good crazy.
5. Acceptance/Celebration
If you speak this language, dirty talk has nothing on you. You enjoy letting your partner know through words just how good they make you feel during sex. You never hesitate to say all the nasty stuff that gets your partner turned on and tell them how great they are during sex.
Now that you know your sex language go forth and have only the best kind of sex – the one that makes you feel good.
Sex coach Hannah Jonathan gave us all these juicy details about sex, and what makes you feel good at the third edition of the ALAT Talk Series. If you want to catch up on all the good stuff you missed, watch here.
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