7 Tips To Help You Take Control In The Bedroom

Women don’t often get their orgasms as easily as men do. Many ladies have accepted this. But, if you are still faking orgasms in 2020, then we need to have a conversation about your power as a woman.

One way to ensure that you always experience that burst of pleasure is to take control in the bedroom and be the boss. You know what your body needs to get there, and you would act accordingly when you are in charge. Here are seven tips to help you take control in the bedroom and guarantee you mind-blowing orgasm.

1. Initiate the sex: There is no such thing as ‘a woman should not be asking for sex’. If you are with a man that thinks it’s slutty to demand sex when you are horny, then you need to drop him. Because one thing is certain, he doesn’t care about your pleasure, and you deserve better.

2. Tell your partner what you need: Communication is the key to solving several relationship issues, including sex. Do not be afraid to tell your partner exactly what you need to derive ultimate sexual pleasure.

3. Leave your fear out of the room: Thanks to all the crap that society has fed women over the years, it’s possible to be afraid of sex. But to take charge and have a good time, you are going to have to leave all of those fears and insecurities at the door. Just remind yourself that you are a beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, and intelligent woman, and that sex is one more thing that you can be great at.

4. Wear your most sexy outfit: A sexy outfit can be the confidence-booster you need to help you forget all your fears. When you feel sexy, it becomes easier to act sexy and to be filled with confidence. And those are two qualities you need when you are taking charge.

5. Get on top: Don’t be afraid to get on top. There are so many sexual positions where you can take control. But the easiest, most fun, and most accessible, include the positions that allow you to stay on top. This way, you get to control the speed, movement and have access to both clitoral and nipple stimulation.

6. Talk dirty: Don’t be afraid to talk dirty, say nasty things to your partner. Fill his head and yours with highly erotic pictures that will help get you closer to your orgasm. But above all, don’t feel the need to stay quiet. Moan if you want to, scream if that would make things better and call him ‘Zaddy’ if that’s the kind of thing that tickles your fancy (pun intended).

7. Focus on your pleasure: For once in your life, you get to be selfish without feeling bad about it. One secret – if you are having fun and enjoying what you are doing, then he’s most probably having fun too. So focus on the activities that give you the most pleasure, and have a good time. You’re welcome!