Eleven Perfect Places To Find Rich Eligible Bachelors In Your City

Valentine’s Day is only days away. If you’re not already hooked and booked, here are six places you can find your perfect, gorgeous, rich, and eligible bachelor in Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt.

1. Pentecostal Churches: This is the best place to find your new rich boyfriend. First, he’ll meet you looking great. Next, you’d nail down the ‘good girl’ part. And finally, he’ll have to try or at least pretend to try that he’s a gentleman because he will have to behave himself. Make sure the person you put your sight on is NOT married so it doesn’t end in tears. Take note of the fit of his clothes, his shoes, car keys and if possible his smell, before you go in for the kill. Make sure that you are also killing all of those significant signs of a successful woman.

2. The Airport: If he can afford to fly anywhere, then he is not doing that badly. However, not everyone you meet at the airport would be as rich as whatever standard you’ve set. At the very least, you’ll be on the right track. If you want to amp up your game a little, make sure you are in the business class lounge.

3. Expensive Hotels or Restaurants: You have a great chance of meeting a successful man at any of the best restaurants in your city, especially if you are out by yourself. Visit restaurants like Circa, Yellow Chilli, Radisson Blu, Eko Hotels, or even Sheraton Hotel in Lagos. You may want to check out highly rated restaurants like Spice Route, Red Coral Restaurant or Sky Bar if you are in Port Harcourt. The Abuja folks should try out classy restaurants along Gwarimpa, Wuse, Maitama or Garki. We would advise that you check out the reviews and menus of any expensive restaurant you want to visit. Whatever you do, make sure you can at least afford to buy yourself a cocktail.

4. Social Media DMs: Sometimes, the best way to get what you want is by working for it. Instead of stressing yourself looking around for your dream man; find him on social media. Don’t be too shy to slide into his DMs when you eventually find him. What’s the worst thing that would happen? At the very least, you’ll say you tried. Even more, you could be pleasantly surprised and find that he likes you too, and you both can join the growing number of ‘it started from the DMs’ couples.

5. Beach Houses and Private Parties: You’ll be surprised by the calibre of people you’ll find at these events. I mean, if someone can afford to buy or lease or even rent out a whole beach house for the weekend, then he must be somewhat successful, right? But even if you don’t run into the renter or owner of a beach house, you’ll still be surrounded by his friends, many of which will be around the same social status. So, sis, it’s time to get off your behind and start saying ‘YES’ to all of those party invitations you’ve been saying no to. You never know where you’ll find your prince charming.

6. Wedding Receptions: This is a prime spot to meet a rich and eligible bachelor. The only problem is that this is legitimately the ghetto. You may see every other single woman who wants to meet the type of man you want as a competition. It always comes down to stupid aesthetics like who is the prettiest or dressed the sexiest, and you never want to be chosen solely for any of those reasons. However, a few people have met their prince charmings this way, so it will remain a certified place to meet the perfect ‘bobo’ in Lagos.

7. Shopping Malls: There is no guarantee that you’ll find the richest man in your city at a shopping mall, but you’ll at least be taking a step in the right direction. Whether or not those rich bachelors like it, they’ll eventually have to restock on food and toiletries. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll be lucky enough to run into one at any of the best shopping malls around you. The key is to look great without being flashy or overdressed for the mall. You’ll see that the man of your dreams is just around the corner.

8. Banks: Not everyone that walks into a bank has money. Some are only there to withdraw their last cash. But, if at this point, you don’t already know what to look for in a man to tell you whether or not he’s loaded; then you don’t deserve a rich man. As always, look presentable, smell nice, and make your way to the bank. Don’t be afraid to start up the conversation if you find someone that matches your taste, even if it’s something as simple as ‘can I borrow your pen?’

9. Upscale Beer Parlours or bars: There are many benefits to taking your search to a beer parlour or bar. A lot of women will never go into a beer parlour unaccompanied. Yet, this is where the men speak freely about what they like and dislike about women. You are not only likely to meet a comfortable young man here, but you’ll also probably learn a few things and even pick up some new business. Just make sure you go on a match night with as much enthusiasm about football as you can muster and watch all the men flock to you. Also, be on the lookout so that you will not take home someone’s stray husband. May the force be with you!

10. Dating Sites: If all else fails, take your search online. Pay for an exclusive dating site and create the most compelling profile you can manage. Be bold and sharp when picking matches, and ALWAYS agree only to dates in public spaces. Create a checklist before each date, and prepare for the possibility that your date will show up looking less promising than their profile promised they’ll be. Above all else, have fun on each date you go on.

11. Comment Sections: If you think the man you want is too busy working hard to notice your comments, you’d be lying to yourself. Nowadays, everyone heads to social media to cool down after a tough day. And you never know who you’d attract with your comments on pages like Netng, Neusroom, Orin, or 234Star. Even better, you can be more deliberate about getting noticed by replying the comments of the man you want. Your comments may be what draws you to him, as they say, ‘like minds think alike’. So go ahead and find the man you want in the comment section below.

Now that you have all of this information; go into the world and find that man you’ve always wanted. Remember to make sure that you at least match the image of the woman he also wants, and don’t be afraid to shoot your shot. We’ll be rooting for you!